Remember that compromise doesn't have to be 50/50.
Although compromise and negotiating might mean meeting in the middle in business, that’s not always a helpful framework in relationships.
Let’s say you and your partner have different needs when it comes to how much time you spend together: you want to connect seven times a week, but they’d prefer two. Rather than agreeing to four nights a week, happy couples stay flexible. Some weeks, you get all seven nights, others they get two nights a week, and some weeks you meet in between.
Happy couples “are generally pretty open to saying, ‘I know that in the future my need is going to get met so we'll focus on you in this moment,’” Orleck says.